Just to let everyone know...this is hard to put out there. I am so worried sick, stressed and just plain feel guilty for this happening.
There is huge possibility that Nolan is dyslexic. He has not been diagnosed yet. But while researching it, and having my husband tell me that he has been and still is showing signs of it, he has, I would say about 85-90% of the symptons of Dyslexia.
Now, why do I feel guilty about? Because last school year Paul was telling me that he thought Nolan might be dyslexic, me being a mother that wants think there is nothing wrong with her child...I just blew it off. Now, that the signs are defiently there....I have come to relizie that this may be true. I feel guilty and angry at myself for not seeing it sooner and doing something about it last year.
I had a conference with Nolans teacher on Monday, she mentioned dyslexia, BUT she said that she could not say anything else about it becasue she was not a doctor and could not diagnose him. But suggested maybe getting him tested.
In a nutshell Dyslexia is very poor reading and spelling in a bright person with nothing else wrong. That is Nolan. He has pretty decent grades, never failed in any subject, really great in all subject at school except for reading. When I was back home and we were at my families house and my uncles and friends would come up to me and tell me how bright they thought Nolan was.....he is a bright kid, but just can not grasp reading.
We have taken the next step in getting him diagnosed so hopefully he can get the help he needs.
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Oh honey, you can't beat yourself up about this. He is still young and will benefit from help...it's not too late. You are as exellent a mother as they come, don't ever question that.
Jess, don't beat yourself up about it. Beth is right, he is still young, it's not too late! You are a great mom and you're doing all the right things. Keep your chin up!
Beth and Jenn are soo right! You are one of the best moms I know. Dont feel bad about it, because atleast he is going to be getting the help he needs. You are an excellent mom all the way around. Big hugs Jessica:)
Oh sweetness, you are an excellent mom. We all do the best we can and sometimes we have to do more. If he is dyslexic, it won't be the end of the world. He can still be just as successful as all the rest of us. There are many doctors, lawyers, etc with it. You will do great, and I know he will too. The best thing you can give your son is love and I have no doubt that you already do that. Call me anytime to vent. I am here for ya! Take care Jess!
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